As a New Year approaches we all get reflective and wonder how we can make next year even better, what can we change, and we would like to achieve.
It reminded me of this inspiring story.
There once was a professor of philosophy, who in front of his Class, took a large empty pot of jam and without saying a word, began to fill it with golf balls.
Then he asked his students if the jar was full. The Students replied: YES.
The professor then took a box full of marbles and poured the marbles into the pot of jam. The marbles filled the gaps in between the Golf balls. The Professor asked the students again if the jar was full. Again, they replied: YES .
At that point, the professor took a bag of sand and poured it into the pot of jam. Of course, the sand filled all the remaining gaps and the professor asked again if the jar was full. The Students unanimously answered: YES.
The professor then added two cups of coffee to the contents of the jar thus filling the small gaps between the grains of sand. The students started laughing. After they stopped, the professor said: “I want you to realize that the pot of jam represents Life.
The golf balls are the very important things in Life such as family, children, health, everything you are passionate about. Our lives would still be full even if we’d lost everything else and these were the only things that remained.
The marbles are the other things that count in our lives such as work, house, car, etc …
The sand represents everything else, all the small things in life.
If we had first poured sand into the pot of jam, there wouldn’t have been any room left for anything else such as the marbles or the golf balls.
It’s the same thing in Life. If we put all our energy and all our time into the small things, we will never have any time/space left for the things that really matter.
Pay attention to the things that are really important to your happiness. Play with your children, take time to go to the doctor, have dinner with your spouse/partner, exercise or take time to enjoy your favourite pass-times.
There will always be time to do the cleaning and fix the taps on the kitchen sink …
Take care of the golf balls first, of the things that really matter. Choose your priorities, the rest is just sand.”
One of the students then raised a hand and asked what the coffee meant.
The professor smiled and said: “It’s good that you ask. I only added coffee to show that although your lives may seem full and busy, there is always room for a cup of coffee with a friend. Good day to all …”
We all see the new year as a chance to change, a fresh start! If you are ready to move forward, get in touch.